Thank You for checking out this blog, I'm doing research for a self help book, nothing trashy!!!
I need the help of ordinary people. So please read the whole blog and you'll understand why I need you to perticipate. This is a very touchy subject...something very personal...
This whole thing started with a conversation, with a close friend. She revealed to me, that she has never had an orgasm, and I asked her…What are you thinking about during sex???!! She replied, “My busy schedule!” Because she does not have orgasms, she has no desire to have sex, and makes up excuses to her husband to get out of it, which constantly starts arguments with him. She has never told him that she has never had an orgasm.
Oh my gosh, she is missing out!!! To have a good orgasm, sex starts in the mind. But people have a hard time talking about, your secret inter most fantasies, even with your very best friend…after talking to her, I started asking other friends and found, that a lot them hadn’t experienced orgasms either!!!
This is where I need your help, I have decided to write a book, this book is not for kinky, crude, pornographic use, but for a teaching tool to help women have a fulfilling sexual experience that starts in the mind.
I’m looking for ordinary women and men to write me anonymously, (men, just out of curiosity, what in the world you guys are fantasizing about during sex) what I need from you is to write me, your deepest sexual thoughts and fantasy’s. What you’re thinking about, to get yourself aroused and to have fulfilling sexual pleasure. Not what you do during sex but only what you think and fantasize about before and during.
If you would like to participate, please send me a typed, very detailed description of what you are fantasizing about before and during sex. Please put your age on the top of the page and if you are male or female. DO NOT put your name anywhere on the letter. DO NOT put a return address on the envelope or I will not be able to use your secret fantasy as an example.
Mail to:
Your Very Best Friend
PO Box 61031
Columbia, SC 29204
Keep a check on this site and when the book is published, I will write the name of the book and where you can find it and you can read it and maybe grow from it yourself. Who knows, maybe your secret fantasy will be used as one of the examples.
If you decide to participate anomalously, you are releasing any rights to all or any part of your fantasy I choose to use.
